It has been a grace in this life that I have enjoyed relatively good health. There was, however, one time a few years ago I had to have a medical procedure to fix a heart condition.  This was all a new and unfamiliar experience for me so I am pretty sure I was more worried and focused on “self” then many others would have been.   What follows is not intended to be medically “graphic” for “graphic’s sake”.  Looking back now, it’s clear that I needed a few experiences and addit